Share on facebook
Share on linkedin
Share on email
Share on print

What is Mentoring? (And How Does it Actually Help?)

Mentoring is like magic.

You’ve all heard about it. It’s meant to be amazing, but even when you see it in person, you’re not quite sure what it is or what to expect next time.

Maybe not that type of magic
Maybe not that type of magic

The Explanation

Mentoring is one of the oldest forms of learning. One individual guiding another, teaching them how to walk and the path to take; it’s all quite profound. But what does that actually mean?

The easiest way to make sense of the power of mentoring it is to look at an example.

No matter what stage you are at on your journey, mentoring can be invaluable.

If I hadn’t had mentors, I wouldn’t be here today. I’m a product of great mentoring, great coaching… Coaches or mentors are very important.

Indra Nooyi, CEO of PepsiCo

Colleagues are a wonderful thing but mentors, that’s where the real work gets done.

Junot Diaz, Novelist, MIT Professor, Writer

I don’t care what you do for a living… if you do it well I’m sure there was someone cheering you on or showing the way. A mentor.

Denzel Washington, Award-winning Actor, Director and Producer

A mentor is someone who sees more talent and ability within you than you see in yourself, and helps bring it out of you.

Bob Proctor, World-Renown Speaker, Best-Selling Author, Wealth Coach

Mentoring vs Tutoring

Why would you pay $50 an hour to have someone teach you what to think, when you could learn how to think. This is the fundamental difference between tutoring and mentoring.

It’s a common comparison, but these two have fundamentally different approaches.

Teaches content-based information (e.g. biology, French, statistics, etc.)  Teaches a way of thinking about information
Usually only applicable to the specific topic being taughtTransferable skills that can be used across multiple disciplines
Generally not suitable for long-term goals or learning new skills Specialised in producing lasting impacts through skills and perspectives rather than pure knowledge
If the tutor is poorly trained or inexperienced, the learning is very passive and the benefits are short-term With a good mentor, the personal, professional, and academic development is completely driven by the mentee, with both short-term and long-term effects.
Relationships may last as short as a single lesson Mentoring relationships typically last months to years
Easy to become a tutor of passable quality, as competency in the topic is the base requirement Much higher calibre of achievement and experience is needed to be an acceptable mentor as mentoring deals with a much wider range of challenges and skills to guide

Arguably, mentoring is more difficult with more variables that impact its efficacy. In fact, some studies show that 30% of mentoring programs produce no long-term result. This isn’t surprising given how little effort is put into the quality of mentoring by some companies. Some international educational companies don’t even match their mentors, a facet of mentoring which has overwhelming evidence for.

That’s why we built our program from the ground up to be effective and evidence-based.

Who is Mentoring For?

Mentoring is for anyone who wants support to achieve their goals faster, more efficiently, and with greater success. Especially for individuals who have goals that deviate from the norm, take the path less traveled, have higher ambitions, or deeper challenges.

But it isn’t just about getting a mentor: It has to be the right mentor.

An excellent systematic review of the effectiveness of mentoring programs by DuBois et. al (2011) gives us a summary of the information we know about youth-focused mentoring to date. In summary, mentoring programs should:

  1. Place a heavy focus on high-quality matching between mentors and youth
  2. Be structured clearly and follow specific guides
  3. Be closely evaluated and driven towards relevant activities

Unfortunately, not all mentoring programs follow this, which is why a previous study by DuBois et. al (2002) showed that one-third of all mentoring had virtually no effect, while 10 percent had a negative impact. In other words, those 10 percent would have been better to not have been mentored at all! The variation in mentoring has been remarked in most studies on this topic.

The general consensus when you look at all the research out there is that good mentoring program design (among other factors) makes a remarkable difference to outcomes and experience. It is for this precise reason that the Foster Our Future mentoring program is built from best-practice guidelines.

Did you know?

There are some famous mentorship pairs out there. Here’s just a few.

Steve Jobs – Apple CEO Mark Zuckerberg – Facebook CEO
Woody Guthrie – Singer/Songwriter Bob Dylan – Singer/Songwriter
Christian Dior – Fashion Designer Yves St. Laurent – Fashion Designer
Warren Buffett – Most successful investor of the 20th century Bill Gates – Microsoft Co-founder
Ray Charles – Musical legend Quincy Jones – Musical legend
Richard Branson – Virgin group founder Sir Freddie Laker – British airline entrepreneur

DuBois, D. L., Holloway, B. E., Valentine, J. C., & Cooper, H. (2002). Effectiveness of mentoring programs for youth: A meta-analytic review. American Journal of Community Psychology, 30, 157-197.

Leave a Comment

Seen this post?

Engaging With Te Ao Māori (The Māori World)

Nā Coralie Takuira Across the world, health disparities exist between indigenous and non-indigenous people (Gracey & King, 2009a) and New Zealand Māori are no exception. This includes higher infant mortality, suicide rates, disease burden and in turn lower life expectancy for Māori compared to non-Māori.Ministry of Health, 2015 Social determinants of health are multifactorial and…

Read More →
Member Actions
Get in the Fast Lane with Premium
  • Full access to the entire online course bank
  • Personalised career roadmap
  • Coaching by a matched mentor
  • Specialist mentors with industry experience
  • And more!


We help you make informed decisions and never advise products we don't think you need.
Scroll to Top